Like not by yourself in a little room after the guy you're with just left.

When you do come, make sure it's worth it. So that explains the chorus, now the verse: I don't have this issue, but I've seen guys just leave for no reason, just smile and say 'thanks and goodbye,' and I've learned that it's just part of the way bathhouses are. You go to the bathhouse, which probably isn't near your house, then you pay $20 to get in, and now you're so excited that you want to come in like the first 5 minutes but you know that if you do you'll only have played with one guy. Since they were a gay group they probably knew a thing or two about bathhouse culture, and there are lots of guys who try not to come with the guy they're with and look for another to play with. More specifically, my guess is this song was about gay bathhouse sex. There is no way this song is not about sex, and there's nothing wrong with writing a song about sex. People who are on here saying this song isn't about sex, please go watch the music video. Just thought it was about straight sex but that the lyrics talking about coming/cuming were too extreme for the conservative BBC

Strange how at the time I didn't really think it was about anal intercourse. I was a gay man in the 80's -just coming out when this record was released and it was considered so explicit that the BBC banned it from being broadcast. I just think that on a site about the meaning of lyrics we probably need a bit more than 'it's about sex' I hope I haven't given more detail than you would have wished for. However I'm not entirely sure in this context what the expression 'when you want to suck to it' means!? He wants his partner to ejaculate only when he is ready and to be able to live out his sexual fantasies and create new fantasies by intentionally directing his ejaculate all over him! Frankie is warning his inexperienced partner against this. Those inexperienced at being can find the prostatic gland stimulation which occurs from penile anal penetration so intensely pleasurable that they just spontaneously ejaculate. However having looked more closely at the lyrics it seems to be more likely to be about queer male on male anal intercourse. When I heard this song recently having developed this interest, I wondered if it might have been Frankie Goes To Holywood's Anthem to Tantric Sex because in order to prolong the sacred ecstasy you have to Relax when you want to Ejaculate With practice orgasm - pleasurable waves of muscular contraction and ecstasy can occur without ejaculation. Expert male practitioners are able to prolong this state for many hours by NOT ejaculating. The objective is to leave your ego behind and commune with Source very much in the way meditation allows but instead of sitting silently with your legs crossed in an empty room, you're engaged in a sexually aroused state either alone or with other. I have recently developed an interest in Tantric Sex which is the practice of sexual acts in a Sacred context. I'm comin', I'm comin', hey, hey, hey, hey hey Make making it your intention (ooh-yeah, ooh-yeah) But shoot it in the right direction (hey-hey-hey-yeah)

Lyrics to relax go to it